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July 2018

February Newsletter Issue

There was a Annual General Meeting (AGM) held on the 2nd June 2018 at the
Union Jack Club in London.   More details click here.


June 2018

Annual General Meeting 2018 From PARITY UK

A Annual General Meeting (AGM) was held on the 2nd June 2018 at the Union
Jack Club in London.
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March / April 2018

Domestic Violence & Abuse Report 2018 From PARITY UK

PARITY UK has complied a report, highlighting the gap on all Domestic and Abuse Violence in all thirty two London Boroughs.


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Home Affairs Select Committee Enquiry into Domestic Violence

5    There is now a considerable body of evidence, in particular by a succession of detailed Home Office surveys in the past decade of interpersonal violence in England and Wales, to demonstrate the existence of a substantial level of female violence against male partners, including severe and/or repeated physical assault.  Despite this, support services specifically for male victims are largely absent or inadequate, and few women are actually charged or prosecuted for domestic violence against a male partner


6    Anecdotal evidence suggests that the police and other agencies dealing with the problem of domestic conflict are often not even-handed in their responses to male victims – by not responding promptly (or by not responding at all) to their calls for help, disbelieving their claims when they do respond, and in a significant number of cases (the police) arresting the male victim instead of the female perpetrator. 


7    We believe that so-called ‘zero-tolerance’ policies have exacerbated the situation for male victims – since for them officers are instructed to take overt action in any incident, or explain later why they have not done so.  In many incidents, this translates into arresting or removing the man involved, even though the woman is the principle culprit.  Such policies  are ill-tailored to deal with situations where both partners are violent to each other, particularly if there are children to be considered.  Academic studies suggest that mutual violence is the most common form in the majority of violent households.  These studies also suggest, by the admission of women themselves, that self-defence is not the prime reason for female violence in intimate relationships, as is often claimed.


8    There are also virtually no publicly funded treatment programmes available for violent women, in contrast to the numbers available for male perpetrators.  This suggests that violence by females is still not taken seriously, even though it can result in homicide or serious injury to others, or trauma for their children.


9    Male victims with children are particularly ill-served, often being removed from the family home if they report the abuse against them, usually with subsequent problems of maintaining child contact.  Courts do not usually help in this respect, granting ex-parte orders more readily to women than to men, even when it is the man who the victim.


10  PARITY believes that it is time for the Government publicly to recognise the need to support and protect equally male victims of intimate violence as well as female, and to provide effective measures and funding to achieve this.  These must include initiatives at all levels to ensure equitable treatment of both male and female victims, including by the police and other agencies (both statutory and non-statutory), and by the criminal justice system.  The implementation this year of the Equality Act 2006 and the new Gender Equality Duty reinforces the urgency of such necessary measures.



Yours faithfully,



John Mays



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